Tuesday, January 17, 2012

Developing self-discipline

Developing self-discipline
Self-discipline
Self-discipline can be considered a type of selective training, creating new habits of
thought, action, and speech toward improving yourself and reaching goals.
Self-discipline can also be task oriented and selective.
View self-discipline as positive effort, rather than one of denial.

Schedule a small task for a given time of the day;
Practice deliberate delaying.

Schedule a particular task in the morning and once in the evening.
The task should not take more than 15 minutes.
Wait for the exact scheduled time.
When the schedule time is due, start the task.
Stick to the schedule for at least two months.
Advantages: Scheduling helps you focus on your priorities.
By focusing on starting tasks rather than completing them, you can avoid procrastination.

Schedule a task and hold to its time;
Avoid acting on impulse.
Track your progress;
At the end of the allotted time, keep a record of accomplishment that builds over time.
Advantage: Building a record will help you track how much time tasks take.

If you begin to have surplus time, fill it with small tasks, make notes to yourself, plan other tasks, etc.
Harness the power of routine.

Instead of devoting a lot of hours one day, and none the other and then a few on an another day and so on, allocate a specific time period each day of the week for that task.
Hold firm.
Don't set a goal other than time allocation,
simply set the habit of routine.
Apply this technique to your homework or your projects, you will be on your way to getting things done
Advantage: You are working on tasks in small increments, not all at once. You first develop a habit, then the habit does the job for you.

Use self discipline to explore time management
Time management can become an overwhelming task.
When you do not have control over your own self, how can you control time?
Begin with task-oriented self-discipline and build from there.

Advantage: As you control tasks, you build self-discipline.
As you build self-discipline, you build time management.
As you build time management, you build self-confidence.

Maintain a self-discipline log book.

Record the start and end times of the tasks.
Review for feedback on your progress
Advantage: This log book can be a valuable tool to get a better picture over your activities in order to prioritize activities, and realize what is important and not important on how you spend your time.

Schedule your work day and studies.

When you first begin your work day, or going to work take a few minutes and write down on a piece of paper the tasks that you want to accomplish for that day.
Prioritize the list.
Immediately start working on the most important one.
Try it for a few days to see if the habit works for you.
Habits form over time: how much time depends on you and the habit.
Advantage: When you have a clear idea as to what you want to achieve for the day at its start, the chances are very high that you will be able to proactively accomplish the tasks. Writing or sketching out the day helps.

Discouragement:

Do not be intimidated; do not be put off by the challenge
If you slip, remember this is natural
Take a break and then refresh the challenge
Tricks:

Associate a new habit with an old one:
If you drink coffee, make that first cup the time to write out and prioritize your tasks.

Advantage: Association facilitates neural connections!

Mark your progress:
On a calendar in your bathroom, on a spreadsheet at your computer, on your breakfast table: Check off days you successfully follow up. If you break the routine, start over!

Advantage: Visualizing is a ready reinforcement of progress

Role models:
Observe the people in your life and see to what extent self discipline and habits help them accomplish goals. Ask them for advice on what works, what does not.

Tuesday, January 3, 2012

Wanna Be a Player Son...!

How to Be a Player: Get Laid, Be Loved and Have Fun!
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So, you want to know how to be a player? I remember when I first started trying to achieve more success with women – I decided that really, really wanted to be a player so I could get laid all the time by sexy, hot chicks.
I wanted to be like the players that I saw in the clubs who always seemed to have a bunch of hot women hanging off them, competing for the player's attention. You know the kind of guy I'm talking about, right? The one who stands there with several beautiful women around him who all seem to be super-interested in him…while he's just playing it cool.
I wanted to know how to be a player and enjoy the fun, sex-filled lifestyle that almost every guy wishes he could have. So, I decided to find out HOW to do it. At first, I thought, "Okay, well, I guess I need to work on becoming a smooth character, wear all the player clothes and get some 'shines' (bling / jewelry)…and start treating women like bitches and stuff…"
Initially, I did the easy thing and saved up money to buy new clothes and bling, but no matter how well I dressed, nothing happened because I wasn't approaching and talking to women. So, I decided to go out to the hottest clubs on weekends and watch the players in action to try and copy what they were doing around women. The irritating thing was that no matter how much I tried to copy the players, women still rejected me and didn't ever chase after me like they did to the players.
If anything, trying to be a player actually decreased my success with women, because I was initially putting on the 'player act' in the wrong way and coming across as an awkward try hard. As you can imagine, this was a pretty confusing and frustrating time in my life! To add to the frustration, my friends laughed and told me to just WAIT for a woman to come my way one day. I hated that, because I wanted women in my life NOW, not in 10 years time.
I thought, "Well, what’s going on here? I'm doing all the things that the players are doing, but women don't want to date me and I'm not getting any phone numbers…or sex!"
On my journey to work out how to be a player, I soon realized that you don't have to actually ACT like a player to get all the girls swooning over you and wanting to have sex with you. You also don't need to put on a fake personality that isn't you.
I thought, "Hang on a second…there a millions of 'normal, average guys' out there who have more success with women than the players…these guys have heaps of women in love with them…and get heaps of sex…and they do it naturally...so what is THEIR secret?"
From the day on, I changed what I was doing and started using the techniques of the 'naturals' (average, normal guys who are naturally good with women), as well as keeping the very best player techniques I'd already discovered, such as: Using playfully cocky humor, being charming and using flirting during conversations with women.
Suddenly, everything changed! Within 2 months, I had at least 2 women coming over to my place each week for sex. I also had a few women who were trying to make me choose them as my serious, long term girlfriend. It was amazing. I was no longer the try hard, no longer the lonely loser and no longer the boring single guy. I was getting laid like a rock star...even though I'm just an average, normal, every day guy.
Honestly, you can have this kind of EASY success with women too. All you need to do is use my tested and proven techniques for being a natural player in the dating game. It's all about the techniques. You can still be yourself, but you just need to change what you're doing when talking to women - don't worry, it's easy.
Stop for a moment and imagine the pleasure of having sex with new beautiful women all the time, without having to spend years trying to become Mr Smooth. Imagine applying a handful of powerful techniques (that took me years to discover by watching the players and the naturals in action) and immediately having women chase you and want to be your serious girlfriend. That's right, women WILL chase you!
You don't have to try to work out how to be a player for the next 3-5 years of your life. This is something that you can to TODAY. You can start enjoying the player lifestyle now. All you need to know are the techniques and the rest will take care of itself naturally.
 It will Continue.....